To start I must say I have walked through another dimension of myself of real talk and living in my truth. It’s like we can keep things inside for years, being constantly triggered, and then you get to a place of expression, and it usually ruffles feathers.
I can be at peace knowing my conscious is clear, without holding resentment because I state the offense, instead of letting things ride. I realize it’s not popular to not be agreeable.
But I must say, once you get things off your chest, it won’t bubble up inside you any more. I do believe that prayer is the answer, but so is honesty, and speaking up for people who may not have the courage to speak up for themselves…
That being said, October Moods is moody, and not with the bull snit. It is real, like bills are real, it’s fresh in the beauty of Fall, the beautiful, and the profound. The complex, and the introspective.
Giving stoic vibes..
The word Love is so triggering for me lately, I realize now that it is something I am realizing has been illusive to me. Hearing the word without really seeing the action left me confused, and gave me the super power to fall in love with strangers and never really bond with, grow with. Not until recently did I realize through growing a relationship with my Mom, that it takes effort, patience, kindness and to work on myself. I also grow with friends rise and fall with them, ebb and flow, but most importantly grow, through good and bad days, and that is how bonds are made, over time.
Authentic love is a world treasure
As a magazine and book person shall we say, I have read a lot of magazines and books from Essence and Ebony, Uptown, Vibe, Vogue, Marie Claire, Bazaar, to Temple of My Familiar, Maridian, Beloved, and you name it.
I saw so many models, writers, photographers work over the years, and sadly some of them passed away, but here the memory stays, see below!
Savory dishes for inside and or dinner parties. These season it’s like stay home, invest in recipe books and magazines, make cocktails and mocktails and watch movies. My friend Jeff just raved about the Blackening, I have it on the list this weekend.
Outfits, for lounging in or a quick trip out, I have you covered. It’s ok to embrace the cozy, with looks that just melt right into the season
Jacket Decoration
So plain jane jackets are ok, but these jackets that I found have a bang. They talk, and walk so great that you don’t have to. Make a statement and take up room with a jacket with pizzazz!
Eyes and Lips
Are the color inspiration this Fall. To really bring pop to your look exoress your lself with color and glow on, and for example, I have a few ideas.
Hair Story
Our crown has so much to do with how we feel. One can always tell a woman’s mind if you just look at her hair. I found a few ideas that will definately get stares, because these looks are as stars, they shine.
Cozy, with looks that just melt right into the season
Current Events, and this is just to name a few. There is a war going on both physical, spiritual and mental. It is so important to work on yourself, stay prayerful, and honest. The alternative is, deal with yourself later, when you should deal with yourself, whatever anger, or sadness you may have, find the root, and pull it out
No one needs to walk around without seeing the beauty of life unscathed by darkness, unforgiveness and bleakness.
Be open, open up, be messy, straighten up, cry about it, know when to shut up, Be brave, share with courage, lead with kindness, but hold folks accountable to themselves..Thank you for joining me, on this very introspective October post, until next time!
URBAN GYPZY 